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Last year, our church focused on the gathering at the manger during our children’s time during Advent. This year, Advent begins in three weeks, so I’m sharing what we did now so that if you are interested in engaging these ideas in your own children’s time or home worship, you have time to prepare.

For each of the four Sunday of Advent, we focused on a different people at a different moment of the story: the Mary’s response to the angel Gabriel, Mary and Joseph’s journey to Bethlehem, the shepherds seeing the star, and the birth of the infant Jesus. We kept our focus on our theme through Epiphany, bringing in the magi, and we returned to it for Candlemas. Thus, our manger scene remained in our sanctuary for four Sundays of advent and for several weeks after. If you are following along at home or in your church, this year that would be November 29 to January 31 (the last Sunday before Candlemas).

Our children’s time is offered by volunteers in the congregation. Each week, children from infants to about age 12 come forward to the front of the sanctuary for a time dedicated to them. Volunteers may tell stories, do brief activities, read books, introduce material culture related to the scripture reading of the day, etc.

During our Advent activities, we used a creche of fève figures. These very small (about the size of a thimble) porcelain figurines were hidden in the sanctuary each week, and the children were tasked with finding them after the service; if they did so, they were free to share where they found them with other children. After they reported the location back to the adult leading children’s time, they were rewarded with a small figurine of the focus of that day’s story. These were created by painting different figures (an angel, Mary, Joseph, and baby Jesus) on small stones sealed with Modge Podge. It took me about 2 hours to paint 30 4-figure sets.

The nativity set we used. Consider using one you already own or supporting local artists in purchasing one or purchasing a fairly traded one at Ten Thousand Villages.

Over the next weeks, I’ll share more about each lesson, but if you are interested and want to get started, here is what you need:

• 4 small stones x the number of children in your congregation + more for visitors and some for adults who may want a set (Several in my congregation did)
• acrylic paint and brushes to create characters: I recommend very small brushes and white, medium brown, dark brown, black, blue, green, gold, and red. Use the medium brown + no white or various amounts of white to create varied skin tones, as meets your congregation’s needs. Use dark brown and black for hair.
• Modge-Podge or other sealer
• a fève set, an additional set of painted stones for your use in the church, or another tiny nativity
• a star
• a manger, if desired

This year, we “booed” some of our favorite local teachers. They got an after-dark present on their doorsteps. The witches at top are made from milk jugs painted green with faces drawn on them, topped with witches’ hats. Inside was candy and a bottle of wine. The mummies are toilet paper-wrapped bottles of wine with googly eyes (which we try to keep on hand by the gross). It was so fun to say “thank you” to teachers for their work this year this way!

Our family has been working on a new daily practice: listening. Active, reflective, engaged listening that says to the other person. My desire is to understand you as you are, not to correct you or improve you or educate you.

To that end, we’ve been writing questions to help us get to know each other better. Some of these questions are serious; many are silly. Sometimes we laugh at things that are meant to be serious, and sometimes our silliness leads us into serious places. Our goal is to publish one each day on our blog. We hope you find them useful, either as prompts to think about yourself or as questions you bring to the car ride or the dinner table. They’re written by all of us, and you’ll see the diversity of our thoughts and interest in them, so in the questions themselves, you’ll get to know us a little better too.

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Today’s question:

What is one happy memory you made this month?

Our family has been working on a new daily practice: listening. Active, reflective, engaged listening that says to the other person. My desire is to understand you as you are, not to correct you or improve you or educate you.

To that end, we’ve been writing questions to help us get to know each other better. Some of these questions are serious; many are silly. Sometimes we laugh at things that are meant to be serious, and sometimes our silliness leads us into serious places. Our goal is to publish one each day on our blog. We hope you find them useful, either as prompts to think about yourself or as questions you bring to the car ride or the dinner table. They’re written by all of us, and you’ll see the diversity of our thoughts and interest in them, so in the questions themselves, you’ll get to know us a little better too.

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Today’s question:

Who is your favorite hero of fiction?

Our family has been working on a new daily practice: listening. Active, reflective, engaged listening that says to the other person. My desire is to understand you as you are, not to correct you or improve you or educate you.

To that end, we’ve been writing questions to help us get to know each other better. Some of these questions are serious; many are silly. Sometimes we laugh at things that are meant to be serious, and sometimes our silliness leads us into serious places. Our goal is to publish one each day on our blog. We hope you find them useful, either as prompts to think about yourself or as questions you bring to the car ride or the dinner table. They’re written by all of us, and you’ll see the diversity of our thoughts and interest in them, so in the questions themselves, you’ll get to know us a little better too.

Subscribe to our blog (or follow our Twitter account @familyfoxhole) to have them appear in your inbox or Twitter feed daily.

Today’s question:

What is one happy memory you made this month?

When can we gather again together? I don’t know, which means that I’ve not gotten to make my favorite meatball recipe in a long time. It’s hard to justify making 3 lbs of meatballs when I’m only cooking for four people. I could scale this down, but it freezes well and reheats nicely, so it’s a good choice for cooking on a weekend and eating now and later.

The recipe is based on Patti Clark’s contribution to the Clay Center, Kansas Evangelical Covenant church cookbook from 1999. It’s in honor of her mother, Nelda Siebold. I know neither of these women, and the cookbook was a gift to me from a former church member. The recipe is titled “Mom’s Barbeque Meatballs,” but since Nelda isn’t my mother, I call them “Nelda Siebold’s Meatballs.” I don’t know Nelda Siebold or anyone related to her, but I thank God for her meatballs about a dozen times a year.

This recipe makes a significant number of meatballs–a 9×13 pan and another 9×9 pan. So they’re good for a potluck or a party. If you use certified gluten-free oats and make sure that your onion powder and liquid smoke are gluten-free, you can make a gluten-free main dish that your friends who avoid gluten will appreciate.

Ingredients

for meatballs

• 3 lbs hamburger
• 2 1/4 c. oatmeal
• 3/4 c. milk
• 2 1/4 tsp. liquid smoke
• 1/2 tsp. garlic powder
• 2 1/2 tsp. salt
• 1/2 tsp. pepper
• 2 1/4 tsp. chili powder

for sauce

• 2 2/3 c. ketchup
• 1  1/3 c. brown sugar
• 3 tsp. liquid smoke
• 1/2 tsp. garlic powder
• 1/2 c. chopped onion (or, really, a whole onion, chopped any size you like, of any size)

Directions:

Briefly mix meatball ingredients until combined. Shape into walnut-sized balls and place into a 9×13 pan and a 9×9 pan. They should be crowded in the pan, each meatball lightly touching the ones around it.

Bake at 350 F for 10 minutes.

Add sauce and bake for 60 additional minutes.

We tend to eat these with egg noodles and Brussel sprouts.